treated like shit by "family" members.
i text my dads ex and asked if i could go threw some of his stuff (its been two years since his death and she said long ago that we could go threw things.)
well i turns out shes been giving shit away (im next of kin and feel as if i should have a right to say who gets what)
i have not really recived any of my fathers items since he died. yeah i got two fucking shirts..one of which i had to fight over.
she told me that i could have OLD BROKEN speakers and radios...mean while her twat kids (which she claims are my dads which i know for a damn well fact that there not) get to pick and choose whatever the hell they want.
...anyways...i agreed that id look at the old stuff once she moves into her new place.
i promptly ended the convo upset and hurt...i called my grandmother (dads side) to have a talk with her about my dads ex.
i told her what she said and how i felt like i was being shoved aside and like i had no right to say what stays and what gos...my grandmother promptly said that she would "talk to her" aka tell her everything i bitched about...
i cant help but feel like im being shoved aside.
i was next of kin...by law i should have gotten his car and a few other items that belonged to him..but did i get them? NO people that she knew that where NOT part of the family get those items.
.......
what have i done to be treated this way?
i tried to so so so so hard not to bother them over my dads things and collecting what i want but i feel as if two years passed was enough time....i guess not though...